
ABOUT Sophia
SOPHIA ALEXANDER, MA
FACILITATOR OF TRANSFORMATIONAL SPACES
CURATOR OF BEAUTY
SOUND AND ENERGY HEALER
POET
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MA DEGREE IN PSYCHOLOGY
MA DEGREE IN MUSIC
HEALING COLLECTIVE TRAUMA
GROUP FACILITATION
MASSAGE THERAPY
ENERGY HEALING
my JOURNEY
Such a journey this life has been!
A therapist once told me I was a “naughty little kid just trying to be holy”. I have a photo of myself in my choir vestments, holding a bible, wearing a large wooden cross with a most serious expression on my face.
I could tell you about all the missteps, sorrow and rage, but I want to focus on the experiences that have brought me the most happiness and joy. They have all involved deeply intimate healing conversations and creative expression, especially with others
Although I have studied with many spiritual teachers and healers, my deepest and most long-lasting experiences have been with the communities that came together around those teachers and the small groups that have formed organically, e.g., Circles of Support, Healing Through Art, Global Social Witnessing. The healing power of these containers amazed us all, and we discovered an increase in our competencies far beyond the sum of our individual parts. We learned to regulate our own nervous systems and become interconnected in our wholeness.
In addition, I am so nourished by individual healing conversations with people. They have been so key to my own evolution, and I have developed the facility to really hear where people’s gifts lie and being present when they discover how to dissolve the blocks that are in place preventing them from the full expression of who they are.
I am also intrigued by the intelligence that is generated in small groups of healing containers devoted to creating the new world we all need and want.
I am on fire with the current of Life flowing through me. The Mother Speaks is a conduit and a catalyst for the forming of a community to inspire each other’s gifts and a supportive platform to find, embody and share your unique creative expressions whatever form they want to take.
So here’s where it all started!
I came into this life ready to dance. I envisioned myself emerging from the womb wearing a top hat, carrying a cane, ready to do a Fred Astaire number to the applause of my waiting parents and the medical attendants. That didn’t quite happen. I picked a particularly difficult family set-up that has necessitated the shedding of many old patterns, both familial and personal.
But I don’t want to go too far down that rabbit hole. I promised you a tale of Happiness, not sorrow. So I’m going to skip over my childhood for the special times that began after I left home.
In my freshman year, I discovered singing. During the holiday season, we sang in a Feast of Lights celebration. It was such a thrill feeling all the voices around me. How excited I was! And then in my junior year, I screwed up my courage and auditioned for a more advanced choral group and was accepted. The highlight of that experience was spontaneously singing inside Hoover Dam on a concert tour. Still get chills thinking about how that felt.
Some years later while I was working as a School Psychologist, I went back to school to study Art. I discovered I actually had some ability if I let my mind get out of the way. It was exhilarating to create something I liked. I especially enjoyed learning to work with clay and ink drawings.
Time passed. I was a wife and a mom, and I received an unexpected gift of $500. I realized I had always wanted to learn to play the flute and now had the funds to buy one That led to so many wonderful times. I went to the local junior college and studied music theory and then took classes in MIDI technology (Musical Instrumental Digital Interface). What fun that was! I was usually the only female in the classes and certainly the oldest student.
More years passed, and I heard about a college in Vermont that allowed graduate students to create their own Master’s Degree program, which led to me getting a second Master’s Degree in Music. They asked me what I wanted to study, and I said “the effect of sound on consciousness”. The experience was so rich, unusual and fruitful. During that time, I spent many happy hours at my computer composing music and even published 2 CD’s of my transformative sounds entitled Body Song and Dreaming the Mystery.
So much more could be said including my recent years learning about healing collective trauma and facilitating healing groups. Oh, and I also became a poet and started a podcast called Frequency Fandango.
She Has Arrived
Finally, and in full Flower,
Blessing us with each movement
Tinkling Bells
And
Personified Grace
Alchemy adorned with
Wispy tendrils
A Gentle touch as
The one becomes the other
The Change Begins
The Dragonfly emerges from the deep watery sleep to crawl up the stalk
We’re talking a big game here.
Excerpt from The Arrival Of The Mother, by Sophia Alexander